Sometimes I feel whether I am intruding too much in someone's life? What is the limit a person wants u to be with him? Where do you define his personal space? Where do you stop interfering in his work, life, etc etc..
Ironically all these questions are applicable only to people you love or adore a lot. You want to be this person all the time-be it happiness or pain. The plain reason being that you love this person and care for him so much!
When this love of your life is hurt, from my personal experience I tell you it pains you too. And to relive yourself from this pain the only thing you can do is to heal this persons wounds by being with him and consoling him. But where does this consoling ends and intrusion starts. In reality it depends how much the other person wants to be with you. Are you just increasing his agony or really you are being helpful? How do you manage to find all these things? By talking to the other person? Is this talking also intruding? It can be. You never know.
So basically it is an unending circle. You intrude into his life because you don't know what his personal space is and you don't know his personal space because that can also be an intrusion.
PS-am I confused? Can someone please be kind enough and intrude into my life and alleviate my pain because I practically don't need a personal space! :)
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